So we all know that opposites attract. Remember the Paula Abdul song? But why is that? Well the answer is found in the polarity of masculine and feminine.
Polarity deals with opposite poles; opposites attract. As an example, a magnet has a positive (+) pole and a negative (-) pole. The attraction happens between the opposite poles, making it impossible for them to ignore one another. The same is true for us, only instead of – and + we have masculine and feminine.
So here’s where things get tricky guys: your physical gender doesn’t necessarily dictate whether you “should be” more masculine or more feminine. Yes, it’s true. In ANY relationship where there is sexual attraction and a deep intimate connection — you'll find the power of opposite energies at play.
We have intense physical chemistry with those who have an opposite energy to our own. Whether masculine or feminine, this energy is not gender-based. Every man and woman has varying degrees of both masculine and feminine energy — but one is a natural dominant force inside you. Magnetic attraction exists.
The Masculine Energy The masculine energy focuses on one task or issue at a time. While the feminine is taking in everything at once, the masculine is able to let go of everything and direct all attention towards a singular focus. It’s about total concentration. When the masculine energy sees or encounters a problem, the sole goal is to find a solution. Men are fixers! The masculine energy is analytical, impatient, assertive and logical. While the feminine is about being, the masculine is about doing. And it is about moving with a purpose, and taking action. The masculine energy wants to hunt, pursue and chase. The masculine energy wants to be needed.
The Feminine Energy The feminine energy is always feeling and seeing everything. While the masculine is focused on one singular task or issue at hand, the feminine is constantly multi-tasking and processing everything at once. The right and left pars of the brain are active at all times. And there is an extreme power in this. When the feminine energy sees or encounters a problem, there is a deep desire to share and connect. The feminine energy is nurturing, understanding and all about intuition and feeling. While the masculine is about doing, the feminine is about being. The feminine energy wants to be sought after, pursued, cherished and honored. The feminine energy wants to be wanted.
The masculine/feminine dynamic (Polarity or Magnetism) is like a light switch; it can be turned on in a moment! When it comes to love and passion, practice and cultivate your natural energy. Embody it. Embrace it. And it will energize ANY physical relationship you are in!